The Worst Day Of Your Life

...Will probably be the day that one of your parent’s dies. Admit it- you think about it.

I do.

I’m terrified.

A dear friend lost his father a few days ago. I feel ridiculous. I have no idea what to say. I spend time imagining what he must be going through, wondering if there are any words or combination of words in the English language that could possibly offer any solace. Does he feel empty? Alone? Lost?

I hope it is none of these things and that what he feels is surrounded by love and memories of someone dear that will always be with him in some way.

I realize that as a physician, I will have to deal with dying far more than the average person. What words will I be able to offer a patient’s loved ones? What comfort is there in simply, “I am sorry. We did all we could.” ? If I hear those words one day, will I believe them?

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